Attraction Techniques for Pick-Up Artist
One of the mistakes that some guys commits when they first meet a girl is to show that they understand the GAME. Like, they'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how girls will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know girls are more intimate guys and blah blah.
I will refer to this kind of act as nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
As a pick-up guru this kind of things will make your conversation topics very poor with women. Especially hot ones.
It might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but to the girl that any man in his right mind would be attracted to, there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you happen to find a girl that loves this kind of stuff, by all means go on with it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION techniques for most of the female population)
1. It puts her on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. There are chances that her awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters which is called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you LOVED for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
What would expect to a girl who spends the majority of her time thinking about new shoes, jewelries and her problems with her boss, wouldn't you think it's just too alien and weird for her when you talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club".
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without being ashamed!
3. To a girl that DOES understand it; you talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women are capable of open relationships and tend to also like women, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So... What to do instead?
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
**Understand society's programming, understand her specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
Once you try these techniques, you're absolutely see a big difference in your game.
Keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
