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The Fashion of the Pickup Artist Pt.2
(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally
incongruent with my personality.
But we all know that women pay attention to fashion, and
like a well-dressed man.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something
really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best
pickups occurred.
At the same time, I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing
spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women
definitely did not respond well to this.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or
costly are the cloths should be.
I guess there is something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must
manage, or balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a
woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make
her like you, you are toast.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of
getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a
way and put up their defenses.
You shouldn't have to look like a pick up artist.
It's better to dress reasonably, and not put too much
thought into it.
However, you don't want to look sloppy. You want to present
yourself in the best way you can.
This gets back to self-expression.
You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what
your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color.
This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n
upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free,
and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry
about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they
ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your
shoulders.
Have your legs look long and thin by wearing pants.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent
haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and
take it all the way.
One other thing...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look
of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other
topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your
intuition with this one.